A lot of these guys seem to feel entitled to women who are way out of their league rather than trying to form a connection with someone of a similar level of attractiveness. Sure, less handsome guys can make up for that with an awesome personality and an authentic appreciation for women as fellow human beings, but if you're not fit, don't wear clothing that flatters your particular body, have a bad haircut, and are also lacking in the personality department, it's a bit of a stretch to think the most "desirable" women should be yours for the taking.