Actually, all of those stories are about very confident men, who happen to also be aggressive at times. As I’ve already said, there’s quite often an overlap, but what the women are responding to is the confidence — not the asshole factor.
You are the one who said that this was a biologically driven impulse, but it doesn’t make any sense for women to be biologically attracted to mates who will treat them poorly, not care for and provide for any offspring, and otherwise abuse them. It’s a non-sensical theory and you don’t need to be an anthropologist or sociologist to see that.
You’ve based your position on your personal experiences, which is why I wondered if you were attracting a certain kind of woman. Meanwhile, the first-hand accounts of all of the women who say that they divorced their husbands because they were sick of being controlled and dominated counts for nothing in your book. In other words, you’re just making shit up to justify your ideas.
I find it quite funny how any woman who disagrees with you is labeled a feminist, with a bunch of ascribed positions that go along with that. I don’t personal identify as a feminist, and I certainly only defend the positions that I have actually stated -and not those of random people I have never met (unless otherwise noted). For example, I really identify with this quote from Carl Jung, “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”
