And many men deeply underestimate how attractive something like that is to most women. They care the most about superficial things like how a woman looks so they assume that women are the same - but a huge part of whether a guy seems "attractive" has little to do with his face and body and a lot more to do with making her feel something. What that feeling really speaks to varies from woman to woman, but it's one of the most missed opportunities for a lot of guys.

I really love authenticity and yes, it would be a much better world if more people cultivated that, rather than trying to impress each other with InstaLife metrics.