And neither does anyone else.... Absolutely nobody is complaining about THAT. They are complaining about all the ways that isn't taking place, that aren't respectful, that don't observe the woman's receptivity, that scare her or abuse her for not wanting a man's attention. This sort of made up scenario that completely discounts the actual problems is in itself problematic. It is just the sort of thing that drives a gender divide. Discounting women's very pervasive and very real trauma to complain about a situation that isn't even taking place and saying it is being unfair to men - when you guys stop doing that shit, that's when things will start to get better.