And none of that speaks to why you spend literally all of your time on Medium railing against feminists and high fiving anyone else who does so. You are a self-described anti-feminist who doesn't understand the most basic things about female experience - as evidence by many of our conversations where I've had to educate and correct you - and who patently refuses to acknowledge what women suffer in this culture, going so far as to routinely lash out with "tribal markers" learned in the manosphere that bear no relation to reality.

Give me a fucking break! Now you are some kind of feminist hero? I do think that you are a good person who wants to do good in the world. And at the same time, your words speak for you, and they don't align with that conception of yourself. I invite you to do better.

Your real friends tell you the truth, and I'm trying to be a real friend here. If you want to be the person you seem to be aspiring to be, you need to stop indulging your pain in a vocal manner every chance that you get and actually show up as someone who cares about what women are suffering. That doesn't mean no longer caring about men and their issues, because those too are very real things, but it does mean cutting out the gratuitous BS and growing up into a mature advocate for all people and their needs. I'd love to see you do that because I think it could be a powerful positive force in the world.