And this is the problem in a nutshell. You don't understand enough about this topic to be able to speak on it intelligently, and yet continually insist on telling me that I'm wrong.

I don't have the time or inclination to attempt to educate you any further beyond linking you a whole bunch of stories that you need to read (and grasp) before any further substantive interaction can possibly take place.

Where Did Patriarchy Come From?

Patriarchy Isn’t a Synonym for Men

We Are A Domination-Oriented Culture

Men Describe What It Takes to Be a ‘Real Man’

Where are Men’s Capacities for Connection, Expression and Empathy?

Why So Many Men are Dominance-Based Masculinity Deniers

In Dominance-Based Masculine Culture, We Are Encouraged to Have Contempt for Those in Pain