And worse yet, he even thanked me once for educating him on King, so he’s plenty aware that what he’s demanding of women is not historically how change comes about- but he wants women to be nicer anyway because he’s centered himself in the story (rather than women) and he takes their anger and upset personally. Not about YOU, dude.

I got pretty hot back there but a false ally like that is actually worse than an honest antogonist, IMO.