And you honestly have no idea why that might be the case? Really.... It must just be that women are mean and crazy and not have anything at all to do with the fact that most women have had to constantly defend themselves against male aggression starting at age 10 or 11 (that is, if they weren't already dealing with that at home even earlier than that). And it clearly has nothing at all to do with the entitled and immature way that most men treat women. 🙄
Most women aren't looking for particularly handsome men. Sure, they want clean, neat, wears clothes that fit and flatter them but beyond that they are looking for men who will treat them like actual human beings -because that happens unbelievably rarely.
Read this story (written by a man). It will change your life, if you let it.
https://medium.com/hello-love/how-do-i-change-my-toxic-beliefs-about-women-1686c500ea98
"Similarly, if you just interact with people as people, rather than trying to run game on them, you’ll find that most folks are actually a lot more friendly or open to talk than you currently believe. Part of the reason why women will complain on TikTok or whatnot about guys approaching them everywhere The guys frequently don’t care about what the other person wants isn’t that they don’t want to talk to ugly dudes. It’s that they’re running into guys who don’t care about them as people but are just trying to get dates or get laid; the individual is secondary to the goal. The guys frequently don’t care about what the other person wants; their desire to talk to her has overridden her desire to not be hit on and so they just bulldoze through and are about as welcome as a cockroach on an ice cream cone."
Likewise, men will project their feelings and desires about women onto women in reverse. Guys who want to bang women who would make their friends jealous will project the inverse onto women — women want those guys that he would envy. Women care about six pack abs because men’s beauty standards for women are so stringent. It’s easy to project that desire onto women, because you feel that of course they have to be into it as well. A lot of the beliefs about what women “want” is really just “well, that’s what I would want if I were a woman”.
