And... you're kind of making my point for me. Too many guys don't make much effort. These days a lot of them don't even bother to shower before a date. A huge number of men don't know how to dress to flatter their body type, have a terrible cheap hair cut, have zero sense of style, and a certain percentage of them have bad hygiene. And the statistic was actually 80%, not 90% and that was on an OK Cupid survey. It doesn't necessarily translate to the world at large.

These guys assume they are "average" when they really aren't. And women are leaving dating in droves because they'd rather be alone than with a guy like that who also comes with an entitled, self-centered attitude. Can you actually blame them?

https://medium.com/@joelalanstein/men-need-to-start-dressing-up-for-dates-225c93138490

"I’d see a woman dressed in a slinky dress dripping with jewelry holding hands with a guy in a baseball cap and sneakers. He’d sometimes be in shorts and a jersey with a professional athlete’s name on it. These people would be going to the same place. Together. The only way this made sense was if they were either going to a Michelin starred sports bar or a men’s clothing store."