Anthropology and archeology indicate that for 97% of human history there was little war, and although violence of course existed, it was not an institutionalized part of societies. It’s only within the past 10–12 years that violence became common-place.

You’re caught in a patriarchal glorification of violence. And, unless you can provide science that convincingly refutes all the science I’ve presented, you haven’t got much of a leg to stand on.