As someone who has been married for over 30 years to someone I dearly love and am mostly compatible with, I have to say that living with someone else long-term is extremely challenging in the best of circumstances. Trying to do that with someone you aren't madly in love with, and aren't compatible with is madness, and pushing people who haven't found someone they really want to weather those challenges with toward that kind of union is just wrong on so many levels. Good for you for speaking up about how being uncoupled is way, way better than being yoked to the wrong person.