Because women are not a monolith, you dope, and the fact that you don't know that explains most of your problems in a nutshell. The fact that you think there is no such thing as game is the other.
You can't force attraction - but you can absolutely behave in ways that make you more attractive to a larger percentage of women - not by scamming them, but by being genuinely interested in them as people, for one thing.
No, most men do not have incredibly low standards. It's a myth of patriarchy that a man will fuck anything that moves. The truth is, men have on average the same number of sex partners as women.
"Among heterosexuals, the numbers skew slightly towards men having more partners, but overall really aren’t that significantly different, particularly when you take into account how much more women have to consider their safety, whether or not they will get pregnant, and other social considerations that men today don’t have to face, such as being considered a slut. The only place where there is a large difference is at the very highest end of the spectrum. Only 12.9% of women have had 15 or more partners vs. 28.3% of men ages 25–49, but in every other category, it’s pretty similar."
Gwen Stefani wanted power by dating a has-been singer who was popular 15 years ago? Do you even hear yourself?? 🙄 Like I said, you're a mess . . .