Being with someone shitty is pretty much equivalent to being alone. It isn't better in any material way. A huge percentage of lonely women are actually married. "According to much research, women across all ages and stages of life report higher levels of loneliness than men do."

I'm not trying to discount that young men today have it hard, I'm just saying that pretending they are the only ones is out of touch with reality and kind of misogynistic.

Please tell me you are not so desperate for a hole to stick your dick that you literally don't care about who it is - because if that's the case, that is a large part of your problem in finding a woman. A woman wants to be wanted for herself and to be cared about as a person, not because she's got a dick-sized hole as part of her anatomy.