Besides the fact that what you are describing is not what the term patriarchy actually means, most of the things that young men suffer from today are also the result of patriarchy and the small, restrictive box that men are supposed to squeeze themselves into in order to be "a real man" according to patriarchal norms.
I have neither the time nor the inclination to write a long essay explaining to you all the thousands of ways that women are still overtly and systemically disadvantaged in this culture (just ask a Black person if equal legal rights results in actual equality), or what a patriarchy actually entails, but one clear example I will list here is the way that women routinely have to sue to get their supposed legal rights enforced. Another is the continued belief (despite neurological evidence to the contrary) that women somehow have innately different brains that don't have the same capabilities as "male brains" even though all brains are plastic and are shaped by the things they are exposed to - deeply influenced by gender indoctrination and norms — to say nothing of simply looking around and noticing that as gender restrictions and overt discrimination eases (but is not erased), we magically have more women astronauts, phsyicists, accountants, etc.
I could go on, and on, and on by try reading Entitled by Kate Manne or Invisible Women: Data bias in a world designed for men by Caroline Creado Perez to educate yourself on the realities. And since I know you won't do that, at least maybe read some of these.
