But the type of personal development you're talking about doesn't necessarily transform them into "high value men" in the way that term is currently being used - and that is being spoken to here. I guess for most people, it goes without saying that people in the dating market need to be well groomed, dress for their body type, know how to talk to others, and have basic levels of self confidence. Of course, many people don't have that - which is I guess where you come in - but it's a baseline. And if they get better at those things, chances are they can find someone appropriate to date without ever once becoming a "high value man."