By coincidence (except there is no such thing 😉) I was just watching a terrific Contrapoints video where she talks about how hard it can be on men to always be viewed as potentially dangerous, and how when she was presenting as a man that felt. Although I sympathize, until men start taking the current culture of masculinity to task and changing it, that is going to be an unfortunate side effect of women just trying to keep themselves safe in world where they are too often treated as prey/playthings.