Considering that this in many ways a fundamental aspect of how many men are socialized to think about sex, I think you're exactly right. They've been messaged that they should "get some" in pretty much any way possible, and that this is also what women are for, so how can it be wrong? Why are you trying to take their rights away? 🤨

This is what it means to say that our societal norms foster a rape culture.

"In other words, as I and others have demonstrated elsewhere, Western hegemonic heterosexuality is often male-centered and patterned in ways that can support and obscure men’s sexual violence against women." (Sage Journals)