Do you actually think that the effects of both legislated and cultural inequality just magically disappeared the days the laws changed? How young are you? 6?
It doesn't matter if you consciously perpetuate racism or sexism because you benefit from both whether you want to or not. What are you doing to make up for that?
First you were screaming about how unfair affirmative action to redress thousands of years of structural inequality is - and now you're saying, "Life isn't fair." Do you even hear yourself? 🙄 Yeah, life isn't fair, so quit bitching about it and go do something more constructive with your time. You'll be a lot happier person.