Do you still beat your wife?

The myth is that men have much stronger libidos than women. This is not the case. But women do get bored faster because not everything about something as complex as human sexuality fits neatly into a one-size fits-all box. Something can be both one thing, and then in another aspect of it something else. I know that doesn’t work for you because you want it all to be black and white, with you and all men as the downtrodden, but although men certainly have problems that are particular to them, there is no zero-sum solution.