Dominance based hierarchies only came into existence in the past 3% of human history, at the same time as other elements of patriarchy around the time of the agricultural revolution. And there are no laws that advantage/privilege women. You're just making shit up. Up until 60 years ago there were literally 300+ laws that disadvantaged women and set up different legal expectations for them and the echos of those laws still cause discrimination today even though they have been repealed. You're living in some kind of butt-hurt fantasy land that has no relationship to reality.
There are other types of hierarchies other than ones of domination. We don't need those in order to survive. In fact, they are incredibly destructive.