Every time I say this I get a lot of push back from some guys. Maybe they'll listen to you. I think it's hard, if they don't really think of women as people and instead look at them as objects to acquire, but interacting with all sorts of people in a genuinely friendly way (rather than as part of gaming it) they'll always do much, much better. Authenticity and just being out enjoying your life is always way more attractive and interesting than someone who is clearly "on the make."