Everyone is deeply influenced by the larger culture, media, etc. Pretending that you somehow escaped that is delusional and being faux outraged that I should suggest such a thing is a deflection so that you don't have deal with the substance of what I've said. There is such a thing as masculine norms that all men experience pressure to conform to. Not every single man does that to the same extent, but again, pretending like that isn't a thing is just opting out of reality.