Exactly! If they are not supposed to be working, why are they all doing so much work creating content and marketing themselves?

My mom had a friend who was a lovely Mormon lady. She was so kind and friendly. Her husband was just awful to her, right in front of us, so I can only imagine what he was like to her when nobody else was there. Fortunately, he had the good graces to die at about age 62 and she reconnected with an old friend, who treats her like gold. I think she put up with the first husband because she's been brainwashed to accept that. I'm glad to see more younger women pushing back on the notion that women's choices all have to involve deep self-sacrifice.