For me, if there isn’t at least a smattering of actual human connection I’m not interested. No matter how physically attractive, if I’m not attracted to them in other ways too, it’s a no go……..

Interestingly, I used to know a guy who was kind of a famous pick-up artist and he said the same thing — if you aren’t really connecting with her on some real level, move on to the next woman. Don’t ask her questions you don’t care about the answer to; don’t play games or run lines……. make an actual human connection. That’s how you get a woman to go home with you. I have to say, I think he’s on to something with that.