Gays have been serving openly in the military for more than 10 years and women for longer than that. The US military has never really been a "straight male" organization. States like California and New York have had non-discrimination laws in place for longer than that. We still have the same internet and front line experts such as police officers and rape counselors still confirm that this is not an actual issue. Refusing to interface with reality is certainly a choice, but not one that I recommend to competent adults.