Gee, that's not what literally ALL of the women I know (and read) who are dating say. Again, you're assuming that your siloed perception of the world is "the truth" when it's only one segment of it - guys who seek out dating coaches. FFS, the Pew Research article I quoted you reinforces what I've said. I'm not saying that there are no men who have this problem, but once again, completely disregarding the pervasive experience of a huge segment of women so you can keep running your narrative is sloppy and counterproductive.

There are other reasons that women reject men, but that is a major one because it's such a huge turn off. It's one of the main things driving women away from dating entirely. Most young men today have been watching porn since they were 12. They've come up in hook-up culture. They think this is how they are supposed to behave and it's hurting their chances. Rather than pretending this isn't a real issue, you could be advising men that this is not, in fact, the away to approach women, unless they are on Tinder and have made it clear that is what they are looking for. That would be a real service to men, and to us all.