Glad you were able to read his mind and discern his point because that isn’t actually what he said. How interesting that your idea of “balanced” is for you to have someone who takes care of all of your needs and devotes her life to your comfort and wellbeing. Nothing at all stopping you from doing all that for her like the men of ancient Egypt who stayed home and did the weaving while the women went to the marketplace to transact business. Would that feel “balanced” to you? Yeah, that’s what I thought.