Good insight. I find that to be the case a lot as well. Guys who claim that men can't help being rapists and domination-oriented "stoics" are the true misandrists in my book.

Is hatred of snakes when you've been bitten by them unprovoked all your life since you were a young child, and every woman you know has been bitten by them repeatedly, because they are just being "snakes" as "god" intended really unreasonable? I often ask these guys if they would stand still for this treatment if it were happening to them. Would they "be nice" and not complain, because I don't really think so.

Talking about actual harm that comes directly out of verifiable mainstream masculine socialization and norms is naming the elephant in the room. Pretending it's out of line is just DARVO.