Good lord! Well, first off, incels can't get a date, not because they aren't the "hottest" but because they have a violent hatred of and entitlement to women. It's well documented that many incels are perfectly ordinary looking or even handsome, but because they have what can only be described as a mental health issue, they stew and rant about how unfair it is, when most have never even talked to a woman. She's supposed to just drop in his lap.
Equally well documented is that women care about looks in a partner way, way less than men do. Honestly, where do you get your ideas?
Sweden still scores in the top 4 of happiest countries - not just for women, but for men as well. The other Nordics don’t have the same high percentage of incels, so there’s also that. They all have low rates of children within marriage, although many couples live together or otherwise co-raise their children. Jumping to the conclusion that Swedish women are using hot men as studs, and then dumping them for lives as single mothers supported by the state (rather than by their own careers) indicates why you shouldn’t believe anything you read that comes from an incel/manosphere source. Sure, many single mothers do get assistance from the state, but assuming that all children outside of marriage are being raised by single mothers is reductive.
