Good point. There is significant evidence that patriarchal dominance hierarchies spread because they were so destabilizing.
https://medium.com/inside-of-elle-beau/patriarchy-really-is-only-6-9-thousand-years-old-6ee0fcdfd118
Patriarchy spread because it was destabilizing. “Egalitarian populations are eventually able to stabilize, not because of density-dependent growth but because fertility, mortality, and resource productivity achieve a balance.” Counterintuitively, the fact that when inequality arose it was so destabilizing caused these patriarchal societies to spread by creating an incentive to migrate in search of further resources.