Great story! As you can see, I highlighted half of it.

Maybe Tinder isn't your thing because Tinder has a 9 to 1 ratio of men to women - so that basic supply and demand equation isn't in every guy's favor.

I've had this conversation SO many times, but most guys don't want to listen or believe me because what do I know about my own life after all? (which as you pointed out, is a part of their issue in the first place). It's much more fun to be a victim of women and of society than to actually get to know yourself and own who you are so that you can have that confidence factor, or to learn to dress better or otherwise maximize what you've got to work with - the way nearly all women do on a regular basis. The level of entitlement is truly astonishing.