Great story! I'm pushing 60 as well (about to turn 57) and although my body is also fine, but not that of a 25 year old, I've actually made peace with that since embracing a more sex-positive life-style. It's a shame that, as you've told me, gay male culture can't be more accepting. There's still an awful lot of patriarchy in all the nooks and crannies, isn't there?