Have you ever actually stepped outside and looked at who is paired up in reality, not in some hypergamy fever dream? Because there is ample evidence everywhere you go that regular guys and regular gals get together every day of the week. Of course, some women only want a rich and handsome guy, just like there are some men who only want a Barbie. But the fact remains, the vast majority of men who have partners are neither rich nor extraordinarily handsome. Anyone who continues to insist that is the only thing women care about is creating a scapegoat for why his lack of personality, lack of self-confidence, lack of emotional maturity, lack of whatever... is the actual reason he doesn't have a partner.