How exactly is a "new order" of less bullying, less performative domination of others, less trying to control women to demonstrate masculinity going to be oppressive to anyone whatsoever? If you believe in all the things laid out here, who cares what label you put on it. Maybe Kimmel is just looking for a mating strategy, but that doesn't make what he's saying wrong. You've said you believe in all the same stuff, so why get your panties in such a twist over any of this? I think the gentleman doth protest too much.