How is it a "tantrum" to point out that there's a false narrative out there, which comes along with a side of "women need to fix this" and to point out that this is not actually the answer? Any heat in this particular response is due to the fact that the man I was talking to repeatedly accused the author of saying things he hadn’t even said. He kept making stuff up and attributing it to him.

Do you believe it is fair and appropriate to hold somebody responsible for things that they haven’t actually said?