How on earth is it passive aggressive to say that you aren't engaging substantively and I've had enough of your deflections? That's about as straightforward as somebody can possibly be and it's not in the least aggressive. 🙄

I've been inviting your for several exchanges to actually talk about constructive ways to challenge destructive masculine norms and you've declined in favor of rhetorical gotchas and red herrings. Only when I say that I'm done with that nonsense do you now offer that you're willing to talk about substance. No thanks, I've had enough of your dancing around the issues and playing games.

Go be a part of the solution. That's all that actually matters here.