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How To Get Her To Initiate Sex
Inspired by the great recommendations from Yael Wolfe
I recently read a terrific story from Yael Wolfe helping men to better understand how to get a woman to initiate sex. She touched on so many important things, such as the fact that women are very often socialized to believe that their sexuality is inappropriate or shameful. It’s a very good read with a lot of information in it that sparked some ideas for me of things that I wanted to add.
I don’t know enough about how this works in same-sex or non-binary relationships, so what I’m speaking to here is female/male couplings. In the spirit of crowd-sourcing this topic, here are some more things to consider when helping the woman in your life to want to initiate sex more often:
As Yael says, “We’ve been taught our bodies aren’t sexy enough and at the same time, are lewd and corrupting. We’ve been taught that talking about sex is inappropriate. We’ve been shamed for having desire, let alone expressing it.” This results in many women being very disconnected from their sexual selves or in keeping…
