I already said in the first sentence of my last comment, "I'm all for clear communication." What exactly is your problem? You've read enough of what I write to already know that I stand for individuality, authenticity, and pro-social behavior absent gender indoctrination of any kind. Why are you insisting on this made up story that maybe what I actually want is some sort of female privilege? Are you projecting or just too deep in your emotions on this topic to be able to think straight?