Elle Beau ❇︎
1 min readJul 19, 2024

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"I can't handle any sort of not getting my exact way, how and when I want it from women" doesn't sound very strong or tough, and comes across instead as unbelievably entitled as well. "I don't expect the world to accommodate me, but I do expect women to." 🙄 If one thinks about the subtext of that for 10 seconds, it's pretty awful.

Do these guys honestly believe that women don't face all sorts of rejection all of the time - in dating and all sorts of other places? Do they imagine that constantly being messaged that you are inferior, not as "logical", not as worthy of power, need to stay in your lane and "make me a sandwich" feels good and isn't a massive form of rejection?

The way to minimize dating rejection is to actually get to know someone as a person, build rapport, pay attention to her cues, float a small flirt and see how it lands, and then build from there depending on her reaction. It takes time, effort, some social skills, investment in the other person, and the potential relationship, but these guys don't want to do that. They want to put their coins in the slot and get what they desire, like some kind of effed up vending machine. How do they imagine THAT feels? JFC!!!

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Elle Beau ❇︎
Elle Beau ❇︎

Written by Elle Beau ❇︎

I'm a bitch, I'm a lover, I'm a child, I'm a mother, I'm a sinner, I'm a saint. I do not feel ashamed. I'm your hell, I'm your dream, I'm nothing in between.

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