I didn't say there were only those types, but there is a much, much larger pool of them there are of truly quality men (meaning kind, unentitled, mature, self-responsible, intelligent, well-groomed). In the face of such a small pool of acceptable guys, it's absurd to say that women have almost infinite choices. No, they have very, very few choices. And that is exactly why women are leaving dating in droves...

Edit: “But there’s a deeper problem with dating culture at play. Men are feeling lonely, because expectations for men have been famously low and they tend to half-arse both dating and their own personal development, and women are, put simply, giving up on them, weeding out the weak and raising their dating standards.

Psychology Today puts it this way: “[Women] prefer men who are emotionally available, good communicators, and share similar values.” And because men are… not always the best at all of those things, women are ditching them.”

https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/women-dating-standards-higher-than-ever