I don't know what sort of company you keep but most women I know love dicks - but also most women have experienced some sort of sexual violence, so they don't want dicks they haven't asked to see foisted upon them. They value the respect that is inherent in treating that as a decision they have some say in, the feeling that what they want matters, and not for them just to be acted upon as an object yet again for the pleasure and enjoyment of some guy. It's really that simple.