I don't really understand what if anything you are asking. I've made it clear time and again that naming the facts about the past is not an endorsement of trying to recapture them wholesale. If that's what you think, you've missed the point in a spectacular way and I don't really have the time to resummarize 75 stories for you.
I have absolutely no idea what you are talking about as far as it supposedly being desirable for men not to know their children or be involved in their lives. I've never said anything remotely like that and none of my readers have said that's a good idea.
The only change I'm interested in is already well underway in some parts of the business world -less artificial hierarchy and performative comparison to the people around you in favor of actual cooperation built on mutual trust and reciprocity. It's already the norm in countries like Denmark. These are things that I've talked about time and time again. I'm not sure how you have missed them so spectacularly or misunderstood me so entirely.
You are more than welcome to make appropriate comments or to ask questions on any of my stories.