I don't see that in reality. Most of the men I encounter do not want to hear about any other possibility other than patriarchy and how they can be seen as winning at that and stop having women complain about it. Not trying to be contrary, but that is my personal experience. Maybe they aren’t representative of other men, but if 50% of young men in the UK are actively anti-feminist, that does seem to bear out that it isn't just my personal perception.