I get that, but another reality has been charted for 97% of human history and as I've often written about, is being charted today in many contexts, such as businesses where greater agility is valued, special forces groups, countries like Denmark, clothing-optional spaces, etc. Maybe you don't have a lot of experience with any of those so you don't have anything directly to draw on, but that's part of the reason that I write about this so extensively - to give people something to go on. And no problem about stopping to commit as you feel so moved. I don't mind a bit.