I get that you have personal experience that I don't have, but human beings are incredibly resilient and flexible when they need to be. These patriarchal Man Box norms represent literally 4% of human history and only certain parts of the globe. I don't believe that they can't shift at all, and I fear for what will happen to younger men, in particular, who continue to refuse to evolve at all. They can keep throwing a fit on the Manosphere and giving Jordan Peterson their money, but it's not going to matter in the end - the clock is not going backward. Darwin describes survival of the fittest as not the survival of the strongest, or the most aggressive, but rather to survival of the most adaptable.