I highlighted a lot, but this one struck me in particular. So many of these guys seem interested in what a relationship can do for them. In theory, they want to love and care for a woman, but it seems to be kind of an abstract idea that would benefit from both an honest assessment of what they have to offer a relationship and some understanding of what that even means.

In addition, if you don't particularly like women, and you talk loudly about that as often as you can, don't be surprised if they aren't flocking to your side.