I know from what he said about that time that Devon did completely stop having sex with other people during those years, but also realized that many other people did not. Yes, it's a great reminder to us all that many things can be true at the same time.

I know he loved his work, which he was quite good at, and that spending time with my family was a joy to him. We saw him at least 2-3 times a year and kept in touch in between. And one of the main reasons that I am so adamant that people who aren't hurting anyone should be left alone to live their lives is because I saw how much it negatively impacted Devon to not feel safe in the world.