I literally copied, cut, and pasted so it's exactly what she said and what I said to you later on in response. I don't refer to you or our conversation in any way in this piece, with the small exception of quoting one of my responses to you so acting like I've somehow misrepresented you is disengenous because I haven't represented you in any way, at all.
And you don't need to explain how Western patriarchy shapes men's lives and responses to me. As I've already pointed out to you once before, the subtitle of my other story was that this is yet another way that patriarchy has harmed men and this one also acknowledges that fact.
You are being argumentative for it's own sake yet again, and trying to center the conversation around you and your experiences in a way that doesn't actually speak to the topic except in a tertiary way and it's pretty darn tiresome.