I never said it was entirely his fault, but he painted a picture (in this one and only story that I read) where it was entirely hers and since as you note, that's almost never the case, I simply pointed out that he hadn't taken any responsibility for a dynamic that he seemed to have contributed quite a bit to.

None of that makes him a monster, but if you're going to go on the internet and complain about all the things your wife did to "ruin" your relationship without acknowledging the part that you played, me (and a whole bunch of other women who said the same as me) are going to note that's undoubtedly not the whole story.

And now, I'm done talking to you about this.