I said there were some notable exceptions although Fokt frequently blames feminism (under the guise of trying to "improve" it). At least he used to quite often - which led me to block him about a year ago. Maybe he's better now. But, there are only about 20 guys on Medium (that I'm aware of) who write like this. Maybe I need to broaden my reading, because I'd love to support men like that. Meanwhile, dozens of guys a day attack the things that I write or that other women I know write about improving the culture - for men as well as women.

I'll check out some of your pieces when I have the chance. We absolutely need guys like you leading the way toward something better by being vulnerable and being real. Just have to ask, you do actually get women making snarky comments on your stories? Because I find that kind of hard to believe, but since you said that women need to listen more and judge less, I was just wondering if that was actually your experience that they don't.